I am so Thankful for my husband.
I was talking with him recently and we both came up with a several key components that have aided in my recovery. He had a few things that helped him, helped him help me, and helped our marriage.
So, whether you are personally struggling with depression and anxiety, or you want to help a loved one, maybe you will be able to benefit from his advice.
Craig’s Points:Communication, Communication, Communication: We talked about everything – and I mean everything. We still talk on a regular basis.
Helped get the ball rolling with the initial step to find a counselor
Talked with and got guidance from a man whose wife deals with the same issues
Doing own research online and gaining a fearful respect for the disease
Wanting to see things get better
Prayer and sacrificing own wants at times
Learning to recognize when to just listen – it’s not about the nail
Realizing it can’t be “fixed”
Continued patience and sacrifice
Recognizing that this will always be a struggle to some extent – there will be good days and bad days. It is a long journey, have to be in it for the long hull.
Being committed to our marriage in good times and in bad
Thank you, Craig, for helping me on this journey to find mental health.
(Stay tuned tomorrow for more on this topic)